Scottish Joan
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Hello Joan,
Do you have someone you trust, whom you can discuss your parenting approaches with, just to make sure you are acting in the best interest of your children and not letting personal challenges in the way of parenting? Would that be a counsellor/therapist, relative, or their father?
As a parent, I think you need help.
I don't understand what you are saying but one thing is certain, I DO NOT need help!!
Next, the father is with me regarding zipping the jackets and doesn't believe that its affecting their "mental health".
I really can't get what all the fuss is about, both girls keep their jackets zipped once its zipped by me or daddy.
All this fuss over zipping a damn jacket, its not exactly hard to do themselves but instead its us that do it for them but they end up wriggling about and fidgeting about which baffles us, why fidget about just because a jacket is getting zipped up!!?