It is so tough to be in an intimate relationship for men, whenever it is so apparent, that from a physical standpoint, you do not "measure up" in terms of height, hair, muscles....all the things women desire and want. Then, on those rare occassions, when you attain a date; go out and other men--(99.9% of others in my case) look so much better physically than you do..knowing she WILL notice it..well it is very disturbing!!!! Poor genetics can rob one of so much! (Hence, I decided early in life to never have kids...and I have and will adhere to it!!!) Then you get the feedback, "It's what is on the inside that counts!" Yeah, pretty people can say that to people like me and it makes them feel better. Also, what about "total packages" physical attributes and atitude...where does this leave someone...like ME????