It sounds stupid to even talk about it. But here it is, I think that perhaps I suffer from chronic procrastination.
After trying to sort out multiple mental health issues (depression, anxiety) I find that now that I've gone back to college (I'm middle-aged) that procrastination is a serious impediment and I need to fix/treat/cope with it better than I have been so far.
I always just thought I was lazy or low energy because I'm overweight. But I'm in college studying to go into a new career and procrastination already cost me the school year last year and now it's there, screwing me up again. In this new career, constant practice is especially important. I'd looked into changing careers years ago and someone very knowledgeable had explain that a daily practice of just 30 minutes would help make huge improvements. I never did the practice. I kept meaning to, but I wouldn't then I'd feel guilty and vow to myself that I would the next day. Then the same thing the next day, the next, the next, and so on. The screwed up part is that despite trying to be present with my thoughts and thinking, it doesn't seem like I'm procrastinating consciously. I'll mean to do some practice, then I'll snap out of a cleaning spree or organizing spree or I'll decide I need to buy something and spend hours online researching the best whatever it is, where to get it the most cheaply, etc. But again, it feels like it would be easier if I was actually at some point thinking "Gee, it's time to get this started." followed by "Nah, I'll just play video games or mow the lawn instead." but like I said, it almost feels like I'm in the middle of whatever distraction until I snap out of it and realize I just wasted hours out of my day.
Is therapy the best way to go? I mean I feel like a crazy person talking about all this because I'm sure people would just tell me to suck it up or force myself to do the daily practice. But I have this stupid niggling notion that it's some deep level trying to mess things up. If there's some good book you could suggest, I'd love any and all help or suggestions.
Thanks!
After trying to sort out multiple mental health issues (depression, anxiety) I find that now that I've gone back to college (I'm middle-aged) that procrastination is a serious impediment and I need to fix/treat/cope with it better than I have been so far.
I always just thought I was lazy or low energy because I'm overweight. But I'm in college studying to go into a new career and procrastination already cost me the school year last year and now it's there, screwing me up again. In this new career, constant practice is especially important. I'd looked into changing careers years ago and someone very knowledgeable had explain that a daily practice of just 30 minutes would help make huge improvements. I never did the practice. I kept meaning to, but I wouldn't then I'd feel guilty and vow to myself that I would the next day. Then the same thing the next day, the next, the next, and so on. The screwed up part is that despite trying to be present with my thoughts and thinking, it doesn't seem like I'm procrastinating consciously. I'll mean to do some practice, then I'll snap out of a cleaning spree or organizing spree or I'll decide I need to buy something and spend hours online researching the best whatever it is, where to get it the most cheaply, etc. But again, it feels like it would be easier if I was actually at some point thinking "Gee, it's time to get this started." followed by "Nah, I'll just play video games or mow the lawn instead." but like I said, it almost feels like I'm in the middle of whatever distraction until I snap out of it and realize I just wasted hours out of my day.
Is therapy the best way to go? I mean I feel like a crazy person talking about all this because I'm sure people would just tell me to suck it up or force myself to do the daily practice. But I have this stupid niggling notion that it's some deep level trying to mess things up. If there's some good book you could suggest, I'd love any and all help or suggestions.
Thanks!