Ashley-Kate
MVP
hello,
i am currently in therapy for the abuse i was submitted to as a child and adolescent. I was wondering if it is normal for words to cause such discomfort. not only mentally but physically feeling sick to your stomach... is it normal to feel so bad by words.. I asked my shrink if he could not use certain words like for example "abuse" and to him he sees it more like i am trying to lower the importance of those words trying to make a explosion into a little mess. kind of.. maybe i am is it so wrong to rather use incident or event or moment in my life rather than the abuse... he believes that when he uses those words i go back to the state i was almost when it was happening the feelings physical and emotional i was feeling before it happened and that is why i don't like certain words.. yet he still uses them.. i don't understand
i am currently in therapy for the abuse i was submitted to as a child and adolescent. I was wondering if it is normal for words to cause such discomfort. not only mentally but physically feeling sick to your stomach... is it normal to feel so bad by words.. I asked my shrink if he could not use certain words like for example "abuse" and to him he sees it more like i am trying to lower the importance of those words trying to make a explosion into a little mess. kind of.. maybe i am is it so wrong to rather use incident or event or moment in my life rather than the abuse... he believes that when he uses those words i go back to the state i was almost when it was happening the feelings physical and emotional i was feeling before it happened and that is why i don't like certain words.. yet he still uses them.. i don't understand