I guess I am the newbie. Stumbled on this site recently after realizing that my wife of many years is a narcissist, which, like a unified theory of physics, explains everything- our turbulent relationship, her family (3 generations of narcissists), her difficulty in friendships, the effect on my depression, etc. It is nice to have a forum to discuss these things. Oh yeah- I have a son with Aspergers syndrome too! Hopefully, I can help and comfort others, as well as being helped and comforted by the forum members.