KimberlyAnnxx
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My anxiety continues to get worse and worse, and my stress management is awful because of it... I need some advice or suggestions about moving out..
This is what I posted about my situation in this Psychlinks thread
For a little over a month, my mother has not spoken to me because i told her she needed to get help. She trashed my room three times one day because i left to get out of my house to study for my AP test... she yelled the whole night until 5am about what a bad person i am and how much she doesnt like me. It is frustrating, especially since i had school the next day.. I left the house that day also because i was angry at my father. I saw him talking to a woman online and I know he constantly watches pornography. It just makes me unconformable because I always have to make such a ca motion walking into any room that he's in because i know he will try to hide it if he hears me and I dont want to see it... Im almost 18, and those are the girls he's looking at.. I was just angry that he left that conversation up that he was having. It was more than friendly so I asked him if he was cheating on my mom. He said no.. that its just something he does.... I was angry because this is what he does instead of actually dealing with my mother.. :-/
Thank you so much for reading thus far, i know maybe all of this is silly.. but what i need help with is moving out. My boyfriend of 2 years (and 3 months ;-)) knows everything that goes on, and so does his mother. I talk to his mother frequently, and could not be luckier to have her help with everything. I feel so comfortable with his family and his mother has the biggest heart. I love Steve so much and there is nothing better in my life. I know that sounds silly, because we are so young, but right now, I couldnt be happier.
I just know that moving in with your boyfriend now is not a good idea. I know that. But it is where i feel the most comfortable, and I am unsure of what to do... :-( I know i have to leave, I just have such bad anxiety whenever im home or whenever i think about coming home. My mother wont let me do anything, no hanging out with friends or anything. I work hard in school, and sometimes i just want a little break, just to see a movie with someone.. but she gets so angry and says im looking for a better mother or something.. i dont understand... My one girlfriend's parents would not like me staying for about a year, so i dont think i can move in with her. I'll be a senior in high school next year, so im hoping to stay somewhere for the year. Steves house is always open, and his mom said we'd limit the amount of time we see each other, make sure we have our own lives, etc.. My other girlfriends aunt and uncle live with drug addictions so her cousin is living with her, as well as an exchange student from Germany, so i would be an inconvenience... I just am not sure if it is okay to live with Steve... :-(
This is what I posted about my situation in this Psychlinks thread
For a little over a month, my mother has not spoken to me because i told her she needed to get help. She trashed my room three times one day because i left to get out of my house to study for my AP test... she yelled the whole night until 5am about what a bad person i am and how much she doesnt like me. It is frustrating, especially since i had school the next day.. I left the house that day also because i was angry at my father. I saw him talking to a woman online and I know he constantly watches pornography. It just makes me unconformable because I always have to make such a ca motion walking into any room that he's in because i know he will try to hide it if he hears me and I dont want to see it... Im almost 18, and those are the girls he's looking at.. I was just angry that he left that conversation up that he was having. It was more than friendly so I asked him if he was cheating on my mom. He said no.. that its just something he does.... I was angry because this is what he does instead of actually dealing with my mother.. :-/
Thank you so much for reading thus far, i know maybe all of this is silly.. but what i need help with is moving out. My boyfriend of 2 years (and 3 months ;-)) knows everything that goes on, and so does his mother. I talk to his mother frequently, and could not be luckier to have her help with everything. I feel so comfortable with his family and his mother has the biggest heart. I love Steve so much and there is nothing better in my life. I know that sounds silly, because we are so young, but right now, I couldnt be happier.
I just know that moving in with your boyfriend now is not a good idea. I know that. But it is where i feel the most comfortable, and I am unsure of what to do... :-( I know i have to leave, I just have such bad anxiety whenever im home or whenever i think about coming home. My mother wont let me do anything, no hanging out with friends or anything. I work hard in school, and sometimes i just want a little break, just to see a movie with someone.. but she gets so angry and says im looking for a better mother or something.. i dont understand... My one girlfriend's parents would not like me staying for about a year, so i dont think i can move in with her. I'll be a senior in high school next year, so im hoping to stay somewhere for the year. Steves house is always open, and his mom said we'd limit the amount of time we see each other, make sure we have our own lives, etc.. My other girlfriends aunt and uncle live with drug addictions so her cousin is living with her, as well as an exchange student from Germany, so i would be an inconvenience... I just am not sure if it is okay to live with Steve... :-(
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