Hello everyone!
I just wanted to ask about something that happened a couple of months ago before the Engagement of course. However it bothers me sometimes.
So a couple of months ago me and her get into a fight i forget now what it was even over. But she ended up "Breaking Up" with me over this.. So i'm asking her why she's doing this to me over such a small fight and she just keeps saying she's sorry. I go in my room and sit on my bed. She comes in and kneels on the floorr then asks' if i want to know the real reason she is dumping me. I of course say yes and she says "I'm just not attracted to you anymore" I remember it word for word. I was completely shocked by this and started to cry and asked why? She said "I was but i'm just not attracted to you anymore" She kept saying she was sorry and tried to give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I would say about 15 minutes to a half hour later i was sitting in my computer chair just thinking and she came over and said she was sorry again. I got a little upset and exploded after that she went into a breakdown and said she doesn't know why she always does this.. She destroys relationships etc..etc.. She told me she didn't mean what she said and begged me to kiss her and begged me to hold her.. Long story short i picked her up off the ground and we got engaged last month. I'm just not sure why she would say something like that to me unless she meant it... The feelings still comes and gos.. Like i'll just at times feel awkward.. Or i'll get self conscious, or even worse doubt her love. I know she loves me.. I KNOW THIS but she made that comment and i'm not quite sure what to make of it.. Im not sure if this help but she has been diagnosed with Bi-Polar and BPD. Thanks once again for listening.
Steven
I just wanted to ask about something that happened a couple of months ago before the Engagement of course. However it bothers me sometimes.
So a couple of months ago me and her get into a fight i forget now what it was even over. But she ended up "Breaking Up" with me over this.. So i'm asking her why she's doing this to me over such a small fight and she just keeps saying she's sorry. I go in my room and sit on my bed. She comes in and kneels on the floorr then asks' if i want to know the real reason she is dumping me. I of course say yes and she says "I'm just not attracted to you anymore" I remember it word for word. I was completely shocked by this and started to cry and asked why? She said "I was but i'm just not attracted to you anymore" She kept saying she was sorry and tried to give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. I would say about 15 minutes to a half hour later i was sitting in my computer chair just thinking and she came over and said she was sorry again. I got a little upset and exploded after that she went into a breakdown and said she doesn't know why she always does this.. She destroys relationships etc..etc.. She told me she didn't mean what she said and begged me to kiss her and begged me to hold her.. Long story short i picked her up off the ground and we got engaged last month. I'm just not sure why she would say something like that to me unless she meant it... The feelings still comes and gos.. Like i'll just at times feel awkward.. Or i'll get self conscious, or even worse doubt her love. I know she loves me.. I KNOW THIS but she made that comment and i'm not quite sure what to make of it.. Im not sure if this help but she has been diagnosed with Bi-Polar and BPD. Thanks once again for listening.
Steven
