Any time I've cut my hair super short it was an impulsive walk-in appointment. If I had to make an appointment for a week out I would have changed my mind by that time. Dr. B is absolutely right (but he already knew that :lol.
Yesterday I had the urge to chop my hair off again.I tried doing what I did before,which was try to put it off for a few days,but the urge was too strong to do that.So I decided to just let myself cut it a 'little' bit,nothing drastic.
I felt so breathless when I was wanting to do it.Like it was so urgent that I had to do it at that moment in order to feel ok. I honestly don't understand why though,why I get that urge in the first place, and why I feel so much better for awhile after I do it.
I'm glad I was able to stick to just cutting it a little bit. I'm so glad I didn't chop it all off or make it look so bad that I would be embarrassed to be seen in public or anything.
I'm not going to beat myself up for cutting it though or that I had that urge again. I'm getting much better at controlling this,and cutting it just a little bit isn't so bad I guess.I am a little disappointed though,the last time I was able to say I would cut it on another day and it worked,by the time that day arrived the urge was gone. It didn't work at all this time.
Now that I've played with it a bit and decided how to do it I totally love it. Maybe just a little less product though... And it was so affordable. My usual girl moved across the city and was super expensive so I just popped into the mall... I couldn't believe how cheap it was so I'll just go to this guy from now on.
Hi You are having feelings and emotions. Maybe sit and write what is on your mind. Our actions are a responmse to what we feel and if where not good with feelings and emotions (Im Not) then we act out. Just a thought. I hope you feel beter
Set a date down the road to do it then. By the time the date comes, you probably won't want to do it, or the anxiety will have passed. All my "drastic" stuff - tattoos, piercings, and short hair cuts have been spur of the moment. I would never make an appointment for any of them because the urge would pass. I don't regret any of my tattoos - I like them all, but if I had to make an appointment I would never get one.
So, long story short, if you plan on doing something you may regret, make an appointment to do it in about three weeks...