I think my husband is a 'victim'
he has an ex wife and 2 kids from that marriage.
Over the last 3-4 years her boyfriend has been seriously abusing my husband at every changeover - swearing, yelling pretending to 'shoot' him (with his fingers) , making the slicing throat action while mouthing death threats.
All very upsetting and all in front of the children.
But my husband would never just stay inside the house and send the kids out...
Now we've lost custody - yes - to the mother and her crazy BF.
And now they ring up to abuse him on the phone - I am getting really mad because he accepts their calls.
What usually happens (but not always) is the kids will hand the phone to the mother after chatting to their dad and then they get to listen while my husband 'cops it'
Can anyone please give me their opinions on this behaviour of my husband?
I just don't get it.
Please help.
he has an ex wife and 2 kids from that marriage.
Over the last 3-4 years her boyfriend has been seriously abusing my husband at every changeover - swearing, yelling pretending to 'shoot' him (with his fingers) , making the slicing throat action while mouthing death threats.
All very upsetting and all in front of the children.
But my husband would never just stay inside the house and send the kids out...
Now we've lost custody - yes - to the mother and her crazy BF.
And now they ring up to abuse him on the phone - I am getting really mad because he accepts their calls.
What usually happens (but not always) is the kids will hand the phone to the mother after chatting to their dad and then they get to listen while my husband 'cops it'
Can anyone please give me their opinions on this behaviour of my husband?
I just don't get it.
Please help.