In the last month or so my youngest daughter (4yrs)has not wanted to come to see me for her scheduled visits. I am divorced and my ex wife is remarrying in the next little while and she is pregnant with a child from her new fiance. My duaghters behaviour is very unexpected and unexplained, as she and my oldest daughter(5) were always excited to see me. I have moved in with my girlfriend and her kids(15 and 17) within the last 4 months. I have considered many reasons for this behaviour. One thought is that she is going through some sort of "issue" with my ex wifes new pregnancy. No longer being the baby she is trying to retain her "baby" status as long as she can, there is also the control issue that most young children have, she may be exerting control in the only way she can. by not coming to visit. I have tried asking her on several occasions why she does not want to come, but to no avail. I am looking for some advice on this as to what I should do to get her to open up to me, and/or make her want to spend time with me. It is becoming frustrating for me that I have not been able to spend what little time I have with her, with her.