I was reading with interest all on this thread.: http://forum.psychlinks.ca/narcissi...rental-narcissistic-personality-disorder.html
My mother has either got Narcissistic Personality Disorder or is a Psychopath or possibly NPD with some psychopathic tendencies... It is my understanding that all Psychopaths are Narcissistic but not all people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder are Psychopaths... lol
I don't know if there is anyone who can for sure tell me which she is but I have recently blocked her number. My dad enables her so I don't talk to him either. I am one of three siblings. Of the three of us, I would call me (eldest and only daughter, yippee) and my youngest brother the 'most normal' and my middle brother the 'special project.' Of the three I was the one who was responsible for the two boys, who was to set 'the example' and who could never please my mother. I remember loading the dishwasher at three years old because she had a back-ache from her 2nd pregnancy. lol
Anyway, my middle brother wasn't exactly the 'golden child' - she constantly and to this day coddles him. He never holds down a job for more than three months because he knows mommy and daddy will help him. They buy him groceries, they've bought him a car, they've paid for his car repairs and maintenance, they've paid for debts he's piled up, they've repaired his computer of viruses numerous times, they've paid for his schooling, etc.
I'm here to say that yes, sometimes a parent with NPD will pass on those characteristics to a child. It's unavoidable unless that child stays away long enough, I think, to figure out what is normal and what isn't. My middle brother hasn't had enough time. Even when he ran away to BC for a while, he needed financial help to get his car off the ferry, and groceries and rent and so forth. And naturally my parents provided.
I have plenty of examples of what a mother with NPD can do with 3 siblings, and what a father enables her to do by just sitting there letting her do things to us... If anyone wants to hear... 8P
My mother has either got Narcissistic Personality Disorder or is a Psychopath or possibly NPD with some psychopathic tendencies... It is my understanding that all Psychopaths are Narcissistic but not all people with Narcissistic Personality Disorder are Psychopaths... lol
I don't know if there is anyone who can for sure tell me which she is but I have recently blocked her number. My dad enables her so I don't talk to him either. I am one of three siblings. Of the three of us, I would call me (eldest and only daughter, yippee) and my youngest brother the 'most normal' and my middle brother the 'special project.' Of the three I was the one who was responsible for the two boys, who was to set 'the example' and who could never please my mother. I remember loading the dishwasher at three years old because she had a back-ache from her 2nd pregnancy. lol
Anyway, my middle brother wasn't exactly the 'golden child' - she constantly and to this day coddles him. He never holds down a job for more than three months because he knows mommy and daddy will help him. They buy him groceries, they've bought him a car, they've paid for his car repairs and maintenance, they've paid for debts he's piled up, they've repaired his computer of viruses numerous times, they've paid for his schooling, etc.
I'm here to say that yes, sometimes a parent with NPD will pass on those characteristics to a child. It's unavoidable unless that child stays away long enough, I think, to figure out what is normal and what isn't. My middle brother hasn't had enough time. Even when he ran away to BC for a while, he needed financial help to get his car off the ferry, and groceries and rent and so forth. And naturally my parents provided.
I have plenty of examples of what a mother with NPD can do with 3 siblings, and what a father enables her to do by just sitting there letting her do things to us... If anyone wants to hear... 8P