Darkside:
Having been a child of divorced parents, I can tell that it is rougher to handle when both parents are adversarial and/or silent. My anger at my father for what he could have been in my life has subsided but it's still there. I loved and still love my Dad, but his absence in the early years of my life made it dfficult for me to form healthy relationships with males until years later. Stay involved as much as you can.
Having been a child of divorced parents, I can tell that it is rougher to handle when both parents are adversarial and/or silent. My anger at my father for what he could have been in my life has subsided but it's still there. I loved and still love my Dad, but his absence in the early years of my life made it dfficult for me to form healthy relationships with males until years later. Stay involved as much as you can.