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Daniel E.

daniel@psychlinks.ca
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"Learning something new is fun."

"We are all experts in our own little niches."

~ Alex Trebek
 

Daniel E.

daniel@psychlinks.ca
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"A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results."

"I have a message for the young kids. Life is about obstacles, endeavors in life are not to be overlooked."

~ Wade Boggs
 

Daniel E.

daniel@psychlinks.ca
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"I have gradually come to one negative conclusion about the good life. It seems to me that the good life is not any fixed state. It is not, in my estimation, a state of virtue, or contentment, or nirvana, or happiness. It is not a condition in which the individual is adjusted or fulfilled or actualized. To use psychological terms, it is not a state of drive-reduction, or tension-reduction, or homeostasis."

"The good life is a process, not a state of being. It is a direction not a destination."

~ Carl Rogers
 

Daniel E.

daniel@psychlinks.ca
Administrator
“The planet does not need more successful people. The planet needs more peacemakers, healers, restorers, storytellers and lovers of all kinds.”

“Man sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.”

“The more you are motivated by love, the more fearless and free your action will be.”

~ Dalai Lama
 

Daniel E.

daniel@psychlinks.ca
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“It is very rare or almost impossible that an event can be negative from all points of view.”

“Just one small positive thought in the morning can change your whole day.”

~ Dalai Lama
 

Daniel E.

daniel@psychlinks.ca
Administrator
“Leave the door open for the unknown, the door into the dark. That’s where the most important things come from, where you yourself came from, and where you will go.”

“Getting lost was not a matter of geography so much as identity, a passionate desire, even an urgent need, to become no one and anyone, to shake off the shackles that remind you who you are, who others think you are.”

“To lose yourself: a voluptuous surrender, lost in your arms, lost to the world, utterly immersed in what is present so that its surroundings fade away. In Benjamin’s terms, to be lost is to be fully present, and to be fully present is to be capable of being in uncertainty and mystery.”

“Worry is a way to pretend that you have knowledge or control over what you don't--and it surprises me, even in myself, how much we prefer ugly scenarios to the pure unknown.”

"Lost really has two disparate meanings. Losing things is about the familiar falling away, getting lost is about the unfamiliar appearing."

― Rebecca Solnit, A Field Guide to Getting Lost
 

Daniel E.

daniel@psychlinks.ca
Administrator
“Hope is not a lottery ticket you can sit on the sofa and clutch, feeling lucky. It is an axe you break down doors with in an emergency.”

“Perfection is a stick with which to beat the possible.”

“Hope just means another world might be possible, not promise, not guaranteed. Hope calls for action; action is impossible without hope.”

“To hope is to gamble. It's to bet on your futures, on your desires, on the possibility that an open heart and uncertainty is better than gloom and safety. To hope is dangerous, and yet it is the opposite of fear, for to live is to risk.”

“Inside the word "emergency" is "emerge"; from an emergency new things come forth. The old certainties are crumbling fast, but danger and possibility are sisters.”

“The future is dark, with a darkness as much of the womb as the grave.”

“Paradise is not the place in which you arrive but the journey toward it. Sometimes I think victories must be temporary or incomplete; what kind of humanity would survive paradise? The industrialized world has tried to approximate paradise in its suburbs, with luxe, calme, volupté, cul-de-sacs, cable television and two-car garages, and it has produced a soft ennui that shades over into despair and a decay of the soul suggesting that Paradise is already a gulag. Countless desperate teenagers will tell you so. For paradise does not require of us courage, selflessness, creativity, passion: paradise in all accounts is passive, is sedative, and if you read carefully, soulless.”

“The moon is profound except when we land on it.”

“Despair demands less of us, it’s more predictable, and in a sad way safer. Authentic hope requires clarity—seeing the troubles in this world—and imagination, seeing what might lie beyond these situations that are perhaps not inevitable and immutable.”

“Their grumpiness is often the grumpiness of perfectionists who hold that anything less than total victory is failure, a premise that makes it easy to give up at the start or to disparage the victories that are possible. This is Earth. It will never be heaven. There will always be cruelty, always be violence, always be destruction.”

“Hope locates itself in the premises that we don't know what will happen and that in the spaciousness of uncertainty is room to act.”

“What lies ahead seems unlikely; when it becomes the past, it seems inevitable.”

“Hope is not a door, but a sense that there might be a door at some point, some way out of the problems of the present moment even before that way is found or followed.”

― Rebecca Solnit, Hope in the Dark
 

Daniel E.

daniel@psychlinks.ca
Administrator
"Come, my friend. It is not too late to seek a newer world...We are one equal temper of heroic hearts, made weak by time and fate, but strong in will. To strive, to seek, to find, and not to yield."

~ from Ulysses by Alfred, Lord Tennyson
 

Daniel E.

daniel@psychlinks.ca
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"Mental health may be defined by the number of options that you are aware are available to you."

~Author unknown
 
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