Labradorgal
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Hi, My marriage ended in 2005 , when my ex bet the crap out of me, was arrested and charged. My children were 5 and 8 at the time. The courts granted me primary custody with visitations to their father. My problem stems from the smear campaign he and his family have launched against me. They told my children that he beat me up because I attacked him with a knife. This is totally untrue and now my youngest who is 18 even said he witnessed it even though he wasn’t in the room. When my youngest turned 14 he chose to go live with his father.
I feel victimized all over again every time I hear these lies. Most of my friends who know I wouldn’t hurt a fly don’t believe the lies. But my kids believe it and that kills me. I just heard recently that they told my kids I used to punish them with hot sauce, I can’t believe it, I would never do that, I wonder what else they were told.
I suffer from ptsd , depression and anxiety, I’ve gained weight and haven’t moved on. How do I go on when he is still hurting me so badly?
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I feel victimized all over again every time I hear these lies. Most of my friends who know I wouldn’t hurt a fly don’t believe the lies. But my kids believe it and that kills me. I just heard recently that they told my kids I used to punish them with hot sauce, I can’t believe it, I would never do that, I wonder what else they were told.
I suffer from ptsd , depression and anxiety, I’ve gained weight and haven’t moved on. How do I go on when he is still hurting me so badly?
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