zanphere, i'm in south florida, too. call nova university. they offer counseling on a sliding scale. there's a campus in ft lauderdale.
it's been my experience that when i'm confused and have many emotions i don't understand, it's better (for me) to stay away from getting involved romantically. there's inner work to be done and talking to people helps me to see different points of view, which helps me figure stuff out. but it makes things difficult for me when/if it turns romantic and/or sexual.
it's been my experience that when i'm confused and have many emotions i don't understand, it's better (for me) to stay away from getting involved romantically. there's inner work to be done and talking to people helps me to see different points of view, which helps me figure stuff out. but it makes things difficult for me when/if it turns romantic and/or sexual.