The more you realize, the more you realize there is nothing to realize. The idea that there's somewhere we have got to get to, and something we have to attain, is our basic delusion.
“You must have a room or certain hour or so a day, where you don’t know what was in the newspaper that morning, you don’t know who your friends are, you don’t know what you owe anybody or what anyone owes you. This is a place where you can simply experience and bring forth what you are and what you might be.”
"In the past, as a child, we used to breathe better. We didn't worry about the future. We stayed in the present - playing and enjoying life. So, maybe it's time to go back.”
“Longer periods of meditation have at times led me to feel a loss of identity and left me feeling extremely vulnerable, almost like an open wound."
There are alternative relaxation methods that can keep you grounded: reading, carving out more time to spend with friends, and simply knowing when to take a break from the frenetic pace of life.
"We can think so much about life and take ourselves so seriously; I mean, I like to tell people, 'Don't take life too seriously' because you'll cloud the experience. That's what the meaning of life is to me - being able to enjoy the moment."
Time it takes: 1 to 3 minutes Ideal for: Breaking free from mental spirals Use this when: Something is bugging you and you just CAN'T LET IT GO
We all have stuff we obsess over. Mistakes we've made, feeling fat, worrying about something at work...it can be hard to let these things go, but you're now trained to do exactly that! You've worked that muscle of redirect, and this mini guided-imagery meditation will help you move that along even faster.
Here's what to do next time you can't seem to stop ruminating on something:
1. Close your eyes and think about what you're obsessing over (not hard, right?).
2. Picture a computer screen, with your hand on a mouse or track pad. Direct the arrow to the topic in your imagination and click on it.
3. Imagine dragging that item to your Trash folder. Literally see it get sucked into the digital trash bin.
4. Now hit Empty Trash.
5. Imagine a blank, clean, clear page appearing on the screen, and breathe.
6. If a pop-up of the topic reappears, simply view, drag to Trash and repeat.
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