solitary man
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It's been almost 4 months since I've been on Celexa, and things have certainly been on the up and up for me.
I have noticed that things are much clearer, both in my life and my surroundings.
The one thing I have noticed that certain friendships have changed, one in particular.
About a year, when I started my new job, I met a really interesting fellow, who had a lot in common with me.
We hit it off rather well and became the best of friends very quickly.
Last summer was probably one of the bests summers I've had in the longest time, if not, probably my whole life.
From the get go, I was upfront and totally honest about what I was going through, without ever feeling that I was being judged pitied.
I think what initially drew me to him was the fact that he has his own issues to work through, and we were able to give each other advice and support without ever asking for it.
With his help and countless hours of debating, mostly with myself, I found the courage to start taking the medication.
Now as I'm getting better, I find that he's becoming distant, and almost resentful of the fact that I'm getting better.
I've let him know that I'm still in his corner and have his back and whatever support he needs, I've got two strong shoulders for him to lean on.
Just before christmas, things got very stressed between us, and the more I tried to help, the more he pulled away.
I know it probably has nothing to do with me (hopefully) and I've reiterated, maybe too many times, what his friendship means to me.
I've given him his distance, but made sure to reiterate what his friendship means to me.
I've sent several messages via email and text, but so far nothing in response.
I guess my question is, at what point do you throw in the towel and move on?
I have noticed that things are much clearer, both in my life and my surroundings.
The one thing I have noticed that certain friendships have changed, one in particular.
About a year, when I started my new job, I met a really interesting fellow, who had a lot in common with me.
We hit it off rather well and became the best of friends very quickly.
Last summer was probably one of the bests summers I've had in the longest time, if not, probably my whole life.
From the get go, I was upfront and totally honest about what I was going through, without ever feeling that I was being judged pitied.
I think what initially drew me to him was the fact that he has his own issues to work through, and we were able to give each other advice and support without ever asking for it.
With his help and countless hours of debating, mostly with myself, I found the courage to start taking the medication.
Now as I'm getting better, I find that he's becoming distant, and almost resentful of the fact that I'm getting better.
I've let him know that I'm still in his corner and have his back and whatever support he needs, I've got two strong shoulders for him to lean on.
Just before christmas, things got very stressed between us, and the more I tried to help, the more he pulled away.
I know it probably has nothing to do with me (hopefully) and I've reiterated, maybe too many times, what his friendship means to me.
I've given him his distance, but made sure to reiterate what his friendship means to me.
I've sent several messages via email and text, but so far nothing in response.
I guess my question is, at what point do you throw in the towel and move on?